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Strike up a conversation with her about the core skills to succeed in a day

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Strike up a conversation with her: The first problem to be solved in a smooth conversation

Strike up a conversation with her: If you want the girl to stop during the day, continue to communicate with us, first of all, the question we have to solve is: What does the girl don’t like?

First, they don’t know why you appear here, (this will speak solutions in the film)

Second, they don’t know when you go, you are not the kind of man who has been wrapped around.

Because there are too many kinds of deliberate good men around you, I don’t dare to show my intentions, always wrapped with them, the girl has their own things in the street during the day, so they don’t want to meet such a man…

If you solve these two questions, you will be simple to open.

Strike up a conversation: The basic formula for hitting up during the day

Next is the basic formula for chatting up during the day:

Attention>Context>Intent>Introduction

Attention: get the girl’s basic attention

Background: Give the background of what she is doing and tell her what you are doing now

Intention: Why do you want to talk to her, express your intention, basically I like you to be attracted to you so I talk to you

Introduction: Shake hands and introduce yourself, start a conversation, and exchange

The main point here is that many people can’t open the girl, or they don’t get her attention, for example, you speak too softly, or use the wrong approach, she ignores your presence, or walks away without hearing you Up.

Or without showing the correct intention, the girl doesn’t know what you are doing, thinking you are a salesman or a strange person.

Self Amusement

If you add self-amusement when you strike up a conversation, the effect will be better.

When you have self-entertainment, some of your internal systems will start to operate.

Your body language, look in your eyes, and tone of voice will be different and full of sexuality.

The meaning of self-entertainment is: I enjoy my own fun in life, and then I share this fun with others.

When you have self-entertainment, this allows you to avoid certain negative emotions and thoughts.

But the premise is that self-entertainment must be used in conjunction with intentions. If only self-entertainment is used, it will often only look like mental retardation. But when it is combined with intent, a certain tension is created.

Turn on comfortable degree

The other core of meeting up during the day is opening comfort.

I have seen many students open the way on the spot, making the girls feel scared and want to escape from him.

Because they lack opening comfort:

For example, you have to keep a comfortable distance when opening.

Smile, speak slowly, control the rhythm of your voice.

Five seconds before the girls are hit up, they only think about whether this is a threat, a friendly person, or a potential partner when they see your brain.

So if you don’t want girls to think you are a threat, you have to stay open and comfortable.

If a girl walks quickly, then you should go where she can see you, hey, get her attention instead of approaching her behind her.

If a girl is sitting there, you should sit down after opening her. Don’t talk to her from a certain angle that despises her. This will give her strong social pressure.

In the process of chatting and communicating, you should create a fun and pleasant atmosphere, rather than let the other party force you to accept everything you say.

The second core that can increase the comfort of the opening is called the empathy statement. Its meaning is that you acknowledge and tell the current feelings of girls. This can reduce social pressure and is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence and social wisdom.

For example, when you open a girl who is chatting with a friend, you should say:

Hey, I’m sorry to interrupt your conversation, brabrbara will start to tell your background and intentions.

Instead of talking directly to the target, completely ignore that she is talking to a friend.

Chinese translation 中文翻译

白天搭讪(DAYGAME)成功的核心技巧【内含最新视频】

 柯老师chris 交际社 2019-04-16

在白天搭讪的时候如果想让女孩停下来,跟我们继续交流,首先我们要解决的问题是:女孩不喜欢什么?

第一,她们不知道你为什么出现在这里,(这一点我们在影片里会讲解决方案)

第二,她们不知道你什么时候走,你不是那种一直缠着他们的男人

因为正妹身边太多那种刻意的好男人,不敢表明自己的意图,总又缠着她们不放,女孩白天在大街上都有自己的事情,所以她们不希望遇到的是这样的男人。

如果你解决了这两个问题接下来打开就会简单许多

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接下来是白天搭讪的基本公式:

注意力(Attention)>背景(Context)>意图(Intent)>介绍(Introduction)

注意力:得到女孩基本的注意力

背景 :给出她正在做什么的背景 告诉她你现在正在做什么

意图 :你为什么要和她讲话,表明你的意图,基本是我喜欢你被你所吸引所以跟你讲话

介绍 :握手自我介绍,开始开启一段谈话和交流

这里要点,是很多人没法打开女生,要不就是没有获取她注意,比如你说话声音太轻,或者用了错误的接近方式,她忽略你的存在,或者根本没听到你讲话就走开了。

或者没有表明正确的意图,女孩不知道你上来到底是要干嘛,认为你是推销员或者奇奇怪怪的人。

 

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如果你在搭讪的时候再加入自娱自乐(self amusement) 那么效果就会更好

当你有自娱自乐的时候你的内在某些系统会开始运作。

你的肢体语言,眼神,语气语调都会变的不一样,会充满性意味。

自娱自乐的意义是:我在生活中享受自己的乐趣,然后我将这种乐趣分享给别人

当你拥有自娱自乐的时候,这使你避免某些消极的情绪和想法。

但是前提是自娱自乐必须结合意图一起使用,如果只有自娱自乐那么很多时候只会像个智障。但是当它和意图结合时,就产生了某种张力。

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另一个在白天搭讪时的核心叫做 打开舒适度

我在现场见过许多的学员打开方式让女生感到害怕想逃离他

因为他们缺乏打开舒适度:

比如你在打开时要保持舒适距离

要面带微笑,说话速度要放慢,控制声音的节奏

女生被搭讪的前五秒,她们看到你大脑只会思考这是一个威胁,还是一个友善的人,或者是一个潜在的伴侣

因此如果你不想让女生认为你是一个威胁,你必须要保持打开的舒适度。

如果一个女生走的很快,那么你应该走到她能看到你的位置,嗨,引起她注意 , 而不是在她后方接近她。

如果一个女生坐在那里,打开她以后你应该坐下来,不要以某种轻视她的角度和她说话这会给她很强的社交压力。

而在聊天交流过程中你应该制造充满乐趣和愉快的氛围,而不是让对方去强迫接受你说的一切。

第二个可以增加打开舒适度的核心,叫做同理心陈述,他的意义是你承认并且说出女生当下的感受,这可以减轻社交压力,是高情商社交智慧的一种表现。

比如当你打开某个和朋友正在聊天的女生时,你应该说:

嘿 不好意思打断一下你的谈话,brabrbara再开始讲述你的背景和意图

而不是直接和目标讲话,完全忽略她正在和朋友说话。

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